Guys are always contemplating the best way to ask a beautiful member of the opposite sex out for a night together. The secret to dating success is not as hidden as you might think! If you pay attention to some basic fundamentals, it’s more fun than you’d imagine to get a date the belle of your dreams.
First ensure that you don’t ask her for a date using instant messager or by texting her. Girls want the personal touch and while it’s fine to use your cell phone to ask them out, it’s better to when you see them in the flesh whether it’s at church or run into her in public. Asking a woman out directly shows that you are willing to make the effort.
Spend a few minutes and make sure you look presentable. Ladies will tell you it doesn’t matter, but you should dress to impress. Do you think Matt Damon got as far as they did by dressing like a schlub? Don’t be a fool! Asking a woman out is pretty similar to a job interview if they understand the effort you made with your your impression on them, then you are in like Flynn.
You should be confident and realize that you’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain by asking her out for dinner and a movie! The scariest thing she can do is say “No thank you!” If she says no, smile and thank her for her time and remind yourself that it’s not the worst thing in the world!